Wednesday, June 04, 2008,9:47 AM
ahhh.
i guess too much luck at once isn't gud either.
cox ue'll hv less next time.
;x
i enjoyed my dae on 2 june, 9.43.25am.
&
he's not online frm then.
maybe
he was, but
i jux couldn't catch him.ahhh.
anws, i'm tuning in to 987fm nw.
=D=D
they said
absence makes the heart go fonder.
yeah.
this totally describes my situation.
;x
i like this young&misson show or smth.
cox they hv tis forum thingy.
it's kinda cute listening to hw ppl react to situations.
like todae's topic is abt long-distance-relashionship.
but i tink th element to
all relashionships is trust.
trust is
extremly important, i guess.
but tis applies to every human-human relashionship.
be it friendship, romantic feelings or kinship.
wadeva.
i jux feel tat trust is th basic element to
a sucessful relashionship(:
but then agn, it's nt an element everyone can hv.
well, here's a defination of love by wikipedia.
Love represents a range of human emotions and experiences related to the senses of affection and sexual attraction.[1] The word love can refer to a variety of different feelings, states, and attitudes, ranging from generic pleasure to intense interpersonal attraction. This diversity of meanings, combined with the complexity of the feelings involved, makes love unusually difficult to consistently define, even compared to other emotional states.
As an abstract concept love usually refers to a strong, ineffable feeling towards another person. Even this limited conception of love, however, encompasses a wealth of different feelings, from the passionate desire and intimacy of romantic love to the nonsexual. Love in its various forms acts as a major facilitator of interpersonal relationships and, owing to its central psychological importance, is one of the most common themes in the creative arts.this is a great chunk. But jux bear wif me luhhs.
here's th scientific view of love.
Biological sciences such as evolutionary psychology, evolutionary biology, anthropology and neuroscience have begun to explore the nature and function of love. Specific chemical substances such as oxytocin are studied in the context of their roles in producing human experiences and behaviors that are associated with love.
Psychologists have created many descriptive theories of love in an effort to understand the full range of experiences and behaviors associated with love. For example, much human behavioral research and research with non-human primates has centered on the importance of parental love for the development of good mental health in infants.[1] Romantic love between adults is important in the context of human reproduction.[2] Sociological surveys indicate that romantic love is a universal phenomenon of all human cultures.[3]
Biological approaches tend to treat love as a brain-generated physiological process like hunger or thirst.[4] The physiology of love is studied in relation to the actions of neurochemicals and hormones (such as oxytocin) and it is suspected that some chemicals might act as human pheromones. Modern brain scanning techniques such as MRI can be used to explore which brain regions are involved in the experiences and behaviors associated with love.hmmm.
a lil' dry & heavy huh?
xD
here's more abt triangular theory of love.
In 1986 psychologist Robert Sternberg published his famous triangular theory of love in Psychological Review, which postulated a geometric interpretation of love. According to the triangular theory, love has three components:[6]
Intimacy – which encompasses the feelings of closeness, connectedness, and bondedness.
Passion – which encompasses the drives that lead to romance, physical attraction, and sexual consummation.
Decision/Commitment – which encompasses, in the short term, the decision that one loves another, and in the long term, the commitment to maintain that love.
The “amount” of love one experiences depends on the absolute strength of these three components; the “kind” of love one experiences depends on their strengths relative to each other. The three components, pictorially labeled on the vertices of a triangle, interact with each other and with the actions they produce and with the actions that produce them so as to form seven different kinds of love experiences.well, i cnt seem to get th table over.
here's th site, take a look at th table(:
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Love_%28scientific_views%29
well, it's time for me to scooooooooot!
all th best for jx too(:
belated bon voyage!
xDxD
xiu's off, there goes my beloved listening ear.
hahs.
tata(: